If he doesn't have a job, it's understandable that he won't want to lead with that, but if he won't even elaborate when pressed, he either (1) does something shady as hell for a living or (2) is just fine with lying a lot.14. It's one thing if he's being a gentleman and doesn't want you to make a long drive out to see him.
But if he's describing himself as an "entrepreneur" and refuses to get more detailed or refers to his job situation as "complicated" instead of being up front, that should be a red flag. Either he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to be spotted out with another woman in his hometown, he doesn't see a future with you and doesn't want you knowing where he lives just so he can keep his distance, or he's basically a hoarder and he doesn't want you to see the state his place is in.
While Bilquis, played by Yetide Badaki, is portrayed as a sex worker in the novel, her appearance in “The Bone Orchard” suggest she finds her partners through online dating.
When she is first introduced, she is seated regally on a bar stool, enchanting her gentlemen. ” The scene is graphically sexual with Bilquis on top and thoroughly enjoying herself.
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